The Whole Truth

What you probably haven’t heard about abortion.

There’s More Than What You’ve Heard

Abortion may seem like the easiest option when it comes to an unplanned pregnancy, but there’s a lot of misinformation that doesn’t give all the details. There’s no such thing as a simple abortion procedure. We want to share the realities of the various types and stages of abortion. We will warn you the facts can be ugly but we believe it’s important for you to know the truth.

“No procedure that destroys life can be considered safe. By definition, abortion is always fatal for at least one party involved.” – Melanie Israel, Dispelling 3 Common Myths About Abortion

Understanding Abortion

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Myth

Getting an abortion is safer than childbirth.
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Reality

It’s not safer physically or otherwise. Women can have complications from an abortion like: 

  • heavy bleeding, and infection 
  • damage to their cervix, uterus, or other organs 
  • 80% higher risk of experiencing mental health issues 

Abortion is a forced stop to a natural process that happens in your body. 

Top 10 Myths About Abortion

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Myth

I can’t afford the baby and I don’t have support from family or friends. Having an abortion is the only option for my situation.
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Reality

Not true! The pro-life movement along with Pregnancy Resource Centers work to provide resources for women to give birth and support raising their baby. They can help you financially, find a place to live, and with job security. 

Whether you decide to keep the baby or go the route of adoption, you can find support no matter your decision.

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There are only church-based resources to help me.
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Many non-religious-based pro-life organizations will help walk with you as an alternative to abortion.  

profemina - What We Do

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Most Americans support abortion.
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While 53% of Americans say they are pro-choice, 55% of those same people support abortion restrictions. In fact, 70% of Americans say abortions should be restricted after the first trimester (up to 12 weeks). 

2021 Knights of Columbus/Marist Poll: Americans’ Opinion on Abortion

3 in 4 Americans Favor 'Significant Restrictions’ on Abortion, Poll Finds


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Most women don’t regret their abortion.
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One study of 1,000 women showed: 

  • 75% had an abortion 
  • 24% didn’t want to have one
  • 60% wanted to give birth, but didn’t know where to go for support 

Another showed 44% regretted getting an abortion; 42% had symptoms of depression, shame, or couldn't be around other babies for 10 years or more.

Abortion Regrets

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Myth

It's okay to have more than one abortion.
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The more abortions a woman has, the greater the risk to her future children.  There is the chance of lower birth weight for future babies; the potential for miscarriages, infertility, and an increase by 40% of cancers to the breast and uterus, plus uterine fibroids.

Can't Stay Silent: The Reality of Abortion Regret, Trauma, and Healing

Abortion Pill RU-486

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Myth

It's a blob of tissue so it doesn’t matter.
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Reality

A preborn baby is SO much more. 

All of life starts at the time of fertilization. Scientists and chemists confirm a stunning explosion of zinc fireworks occurs when a human egg is activated by a sperm.

New Life Begins at Conception


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Myth

The Abortion Pill is one and done.
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A woman must take two powerful synthetic hormones: RU-486 (mifepristone) and misoprostol. You might also have to visit the abortion facility up to three (3) more times to complete the abortion. 

Abortion Pill FAQs | profemina

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Myth

The baby and woman are not harmed and it is easier than a surgical abortion.
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It’s a two-pill process:

  • The first pill keeps nutrients from the baby  
  • The second initiates contractions 
  • The dead baby comes out about four hours later usually at home
  • You’re left alone to deal with it along with bleeding and pain 
  • If it fails, the woman has to have a surgical abortion.

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Myth

The abortion pill is safe.
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Reality

RU-486, in its short lifespan, has significant, well-documented, short-term, dangerous side effects, including prolonged and severe bleeding, nausea, vomiting, pain, and death.

Abortion Pill Kills | Live Action

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A drug is a drug so chemical abortion is safe.
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Chemical abortion is dangerous. Studies have found that chemical abortion has four times the complication rate of surgical abortion, and these risks only increase with advanced pregnancy and lack of medical supervision.

Abortion Drug Facts - Lozier Institute

Surgical Abortion

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Myth

It's a blob of tissue so it doesn’t matter.
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Reality

A preborn baby is SO much more. All of life starts at the time of fertilization. Scientists and chemists confirm a stunning explosion of zinc fireworks occurs when a human egg is activated by a sperm. Everything that will make this baby a unique human is also created then, too.

New Life Begins at Conception

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Myth

A surgical abortion is safe.
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Reality

It is already deadly for the baby:

  • The body is pulled apart 
  • The placenta is torn from the uterus 
  • All the pieces are sucked into a container

The baby’s body parts have to be identified to ensure it’s all removed. It could be deadly to the mother if not. 

They must not puncture the woman’s uterus, causing heavy bleeding.

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Myth

Abortion and miscarriage are the same thing.
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Abortion is a decision. A miscarriage is not. 

  • A Dilation and Curettage (D&C) happens in both circumstances. 
  • An abortion is purposefully getting rid of the baby even if developing and healthy. 
  • A miscarriage is an unfortunate spontaneous bodily response when the baby naturally stops growing. 

The Process of a D&C

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Myth

Abortion is not a horrible way for the baby to die.
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A Dilation and Extraction (D & E) is performed in the 2nd trimester (weeks 12-16) of a pregnancy. Since the baby’s bones are calcified, forceps must be used to dismember the body of the baby by grabbing the baby’s limbs, tearing them off the body, and crushing the skull.  

The Process of a D&E 

Abortion Procedures: 1st, 2nd, and 3rd Trimesters

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No abortion causes the baby pain.
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Yes, it does. It is medically proven and based on embryology which is the biology and medicine concerned with the study of embryos and their development.  To research more, and validate this fact you can go to:

doctorsonfetalpain.com

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Abortions are not cruel.
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Abortions aren’t simple medical procedures. No matter the type of abortion or when you have it, it’s damaging to both you and the baby. 

It takes days to complete the abortion and you can still suffer physical and mental side effects. 

By week 12 a preborn baby can feel and react to pain. 

Top 10 Myths About Abortion

The Abortion Survivors Network

Abortion Reversal Process

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Myth

If I take the abortion pill, my baby will surely die.
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Reality

There is an opportunity to save your baby after taking the first abortion pill. 

If you or someone you know took the abortion pill and regret it, you can contact the Abortion Pill Rescue Network which provides free and confidential care 24/7.

Call them at (877) 558-0333 or go to AbortionPillReversal.com now.

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There is no one to call if I change my mind.
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Seeking a last chance to choose life for their little ones, women can reach out to the Abortion Pill Rescue Network and be connected with a local medical provider who starts the Abortion Pill Reversal Process.

Abortion Drug Facts - Lozier Institute

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There are no successful and personal stories of saving a baby from the reversal process.
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The Abortion Pill Rescue Network reports statistics show that thousands of lives have been saved (and counting) through the abortion pill reversal protocol!

Abortion Pill Rescue Network Lives Saved (heartbeatinternational.org)

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The abortion pill reversal isn't any more safe than the pill itself.
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Unlike the abortion pill which is a chemical, the reversal replaces the natural hormone progesterone which the abortion chemical blocks. The pill keeps this hormone from getting to the preborn baby, helping the growth and development. 

Florida Doc Reverses Abortion of Twins, Hospital Board Deems Actions Reasonable

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Myth

The abortion clinic said I have to complete the abortion.
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No, it is always your choice to change your mind. Even if you have started the chemical abortion process, reversal may still be a choice for you.

Abortion Pill Reversal

Post-Abortion Trauma

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There is no one to help me who understands.
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There are many non-judgmental, caring organizations and ministries that understand and want to help you heal physically and emotionally from the harmful effects caused by abortion.  

Many women who are a part of these organizations like Pregnancy Resource Centers have walked through the regret of abortion and want to give support in ways they didn’t get in this heartbreaking time.

CantStaySilent.com

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Myth

Men do not experience post-abortion trauma.
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Just because their body isn’t physically affected by the baby doesn’t mean men don’t experience trauma from abortion. It’s common for men to experience regret leading to grief, anger, depression, guilt, and shame after an abortion. They can even experience abortion-related difficulties with trust and intimacy in future relationships. 

Can’t Stay Silent (pg 29-30)

The Silent, Post-Abortion Grief of Men

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Myth

Grief and depression after an abortion only happens to the woman who had the abortion.
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Reality

Abortion affects anyone connected to the preborn baby including grandparents and siblings.

Abortion Robs Grandparents, Too

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Myth

There are no long-lasting consequences from having an abortion.
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There are many lasting consequences including:

  • Wounds in the uterus, cervix, or damage to other organs
  • Heavy bleeding or infection
  • Future miscarriages or low birth weight
  • 40% increased chance of breast cancer and uterine fibroids
  • Anxiety, depression, anger, substance abuse, or self-harm
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Myth

Healing after abortion is not possible.
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If you are suffering after an abortion, there are local organizations that can help with your healing:

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